First Date: Do's and Don'ts

I feel like I have definitely had my fair share of first dates.  My parents always pushed me to give people a chance, and that some of the best things have happened to them through networking.  With this, I decided to give my evaluation on first dates, so we can all perfect our "game".

Do:
-Pick the girl up, and make sure you are driving (unless you have a chauffeur haha).  If in NYC, then meet her at her apartment and you guys can take the subway together, or cab.  If you take a cab, you have just gained yourself extra bonus points.

• Come early! Early=on time. Even if you have to wait for her, the last thing you want is her waiting on you.

-Dress nice, but keep it casual.  Show that you care, but don't dress like a square.
-Have some key conversation topics that you both can relate to.  It helps when things get awkward.

• Spend more time talking on the phone than texting! People who have been texting back and forth for a month, finally meet up, and it's awkward.  I wonder why.

-Whoever invited who out, has to pay.  Even if it isn't technically a "date".  And sorry guys, but this usually means you.
-Have a plan.  No plan=no fun.  Nobody wants to keep asking "Sooo...what are we gonna do now?"

Don't:
-Talk about business too much.  Or really yourself for that matter. Spend time asking questions and be engaged in the other person's life, not your own.
-Linger.  Finish your date and leave on a strong note, which in turn leaves a great lasting impression.

-"Do the most".  This means ordering the largest most expensive food/drink items, having to see an IMAX 3D movie, etc.  Less is best.
-Go on your phone!! I don't want to see you glancing down at your phone all night not paying attention to what's in front of you.
-Expect anything.  Don't expect this to be the love of your life, or a free meal.  Letting things flow naturally without force is key.

Even though this sounds simple and is common sense, we have all been in these situations.  So apply these concepts for a better first date, better friendship/relationship, or just a way to make those few hours bearable.